Kids and teens: Rules to consider
By Donna Fleming on 4th March, in Kids & teenagers, Parenting
PRESCHOOL
At 3:
In most places, movies are no longer free. You now have to pay a child’s admission price for your little one.
SCHOOL AGE
At 5:
- Bus trips are no longer free. They will now be charged a child fare.
- Your child is entitled to start school.
At 6:
- Your child is legally obliged to be at school, unless you live more than 3km from the school, in which case they must start at seven.
At 10:
- They can be legally prosecuted for murder or manslaughter.
PRETEEN
At 12:
- If they are called to testify in court, they have to take a formal oath. Under this age, they must only promise to tell the truth.
- You now have to fork out the adult fare for them on flights. They can travel alone on international flights as an unaccompanied minor.
TEEN
At 14:
- Your child can be left without adult supervision. They can also babysit younger children, as long as they are considered to be capable of reasonable supervision and care.
- They are now old enough to be prosecuted for any criminal offence.
At 16:
- Your teenager can sit their driving test and get their learner licence.
- They can leave school and work full time. They are also old enough to be expelled from school (rather than excluded).
- They are entitled to the minimum adult wage as long as they are not considered a new entrant or trainee.
- They can leave home. But if Child, Youth and Family considers they are at risk, it can send them home until they turn 17.
- Your teenager can apply for certain benefits, such as the Independent Youth Benefit and Invalid’s Benefit.
- They can legally have sex. If they have treatment for a sexually transmitted disease, their doctor does not have to tell you.
- They can get married or enter a civil union as long as they have your consent. As soon as they do that, you are no longer their legal guardian.
- If you and their other parent split up, they can decide which of you they want to live with.
- They can get a tattoo without your permission.
- They can decide whether to agree to medical treatment or refuse it. They can’t be treated for mental disorders without their consent, unless they are under a compulsory treatment order.
- They have to pay adult prices at the movies. They’re also considered adults by many bus companies, unless they are still a student and have a student ID card or are in school uniform.
- They can apply for a firearms licence.
At 17:
- Your child is old enough to get their full driving licence.
- They can join the army, air force or navy.
- Police can question them without you or another adult being present. If they are charged with a criminal offence, they will appear in the District Court, not the Youth Court.
- Child, Youth and Family can no longer get an order for your child’s care and protection.

At 20, your child can legally enter a casino
YOUNG ADULT
At 18:
- You are no longer your child’s legal guardian.
- They can get married or enter a civil union without your consent.
- They are no longer entitled to free dental care.
- They can buy alcohol, cigarettes and tobacco.
- They can join the police. They can also be employed in a bar or liquor store.
- They can apply for the Unemployment Benefit, Domestic Purposes Benefit, Sickness Benefit or the Student Allowance.
- They’re allowed to ask their bank for a cheque account, credit card or a loan.
- They can place a bet at the TAB or a racecourse, and buy Instant Kiwi tickets (they can buy a Lotto ticket at any age).
- They can buy fireworks.
- They can vote and stand as a political candidate.
- They can be called for jury service.
At 19:
- They are no longer eligible for free education unless they have special needs.
- If they’re adopted, they can prevent Births, Deaths and Marriages from giving their details to their birth parents.
At 20:
- Although they were granted many adult rights when they turned 18, they aren’t officially regarded as an adult until now.
- If they’re adopted, they can apply to Births, Deaths and Marriages for a copy of their pre-adoption birth certificate to find the names of their birth parents.
- They can adopt a child related to them. They can’t adopt a non-relative until they’re 25, and the child has to be at least 20 years younger than them.
- They can legally enter a casino.
